Question

How do you get your cat to quit pooping on the carpet instead of her new litterbox that is exactly the same as her old one but for some reason she's terrified of it and not only of the box but also the whole room it is in?

Also, how do you keep your husband from divorcing you when you refuse to get rid of said cat but instead add a third litter box in the family room where she is pooping in the hopes that she'll start using that instead of the floor and then you can eventually move it into the room where you really want her to poop?